No Surprise Thanksgiving
11/19/2019 01:19:41 PM
Thanksgiving! For most of us, it is a time to look forward, whether we are in or out of town, to gather with family and friends. For many, this is an “official” time of year, not any less important than gathering for the High Holy Days or Passover. It is historically for Jewish families, (at least as far as America is concerned), a very welcomed, secular holiday that doesn’t challenge notions of the “kosherness” of...Read more...
“Keep Jews out of the News”
11/15/2019 03:09:43 PM
For much of the 20th and so far in the 21st century, and let’s face it, for most of Jewish existence, the “Oy Gevalts” over our existence have been a constant of Jewish life. From the new book, The 100 Most Jewish Foods: A Highly Debatable List, regarding Horseradish, “Let the WASPs have their Worcestershire; leave it to the Jews to turn suffering into a craving.”
Sociologists and historians, genealogists and...Read more...
The Value of Downtime
11/05/2019 04:34:47 PM
Take it from me, this is tough. It is so much easier to teach than to do. And when your very nature, is of an “entrepreneurial” design with no pre-existing barometers of success, limits, or boundaries, like so many are today, the concept of “downtime” is a tough one, even for someone who spends so much time thinking about, writing about, guiding others to practice it, as I do. I want so desperately for you to know...Read more...
A Little Inspiration Never Hurts
10/30/2019 09:12:38 AM
I’ll never forget when I heard Malat Wei call his new wheelchair basketball teammate, Abraham Hausman-Weiss, his “brother from another mother,” and even joked around claiming a new last name, “Hausman-Wei!” Malat had contracted polio as a child when his family survived and barely escaped with their lives from Sudan. Eventually they made their way to Houston, and after few years, Malat joined and played for the Houston Hot...Read more...
Why is Rabbi Scott in Puerto Rico this week if…
10/22/2019 06:11:33 PM
I am in Puerto Rico this week for an interfaith clergy service trip. Our group of Rabbis, Ministers, an Imam, and reps from the Houston Jewish Federation and Islamic Relief have descended on Dorado, PR where we are continuing our post-hurricane relief work...Read more...
Nothing Goes Away But Us
10/03/2019 06:52:39 AM
On Yom Kippur, we will be immersed in that idea. Not because this year, Shma Koleinu is doing something new and different. It’s not this year’s “Yom Kippur theme.” It is THE THEME of Yom Kippur. And in this moment, I really want to encourage you not to call it, “Yum Kipper.” For a fast day, who really wants to wish each other a hearty and delicious...Read more...
Three Things to Know About the High Holy Days!
09/25/2019 12:23:19 PM
Gospel Anyone? On Rosh Hashanah...Read more...
“One Small Sheet of Paper”
09/18/2019 04:25:54 PM
I had just sat down to write this blog entry when Sammy called me from school. He wanted to get some information about the upcoming High Holy Days at Shma Koleinu, as he had just shared with his teacher, why she and her family needed to try us out! Now, I don’t know about you but to me, this is the equivalent (not to be morose) of hearing one’s own eulogy! There are very few people whose opinions matter to me more than...Read more...
Buckle up, it’s going to be a bumpy and smooth set of nights and days.
09/11/2019 11:43:07 AM
Who is invited to the High Holy Days at Shma Koleinu? (cont'd)
For the past two weeks, I have issued “invitations” to people stuck in different mind frames that might make the High Holy Days feel less “inviting.” As my grandmother used to say, “Poppycock!” I echo her now, because if those who are feeling disconnected or those who are feeling a deep sense of dread aren’t “invited” to the High Holy Days, who...Read more...
The Dissipation of Dread
09/04/2019 10:03:37 AM
Who is Invited to High Holy Days with Shma Koleinu? (cont'd)
As you know, everyone is invited. However, sometimes, you’ve got to be more explicit.
Last week, I wanted you to know that you are invited even if AND ESPECIALLY if you feel disconnected. Disconnected from Judaism, disconnected from spirituality, from family, from yourself. And that we want you to know that this...Read more...
Who is invited to Shma Koleinu for the High Holy Days?
08/27/2019 01:58:54 PM
If you are a regular reader of this blog, or familiar with Shma Koleinu, you’ll probably know the obvious answer to this question. “Everyone.”
However, sometimes “everyone” sounds too general to be meaningful, too “umbrellaish” to not get wet. So, let’s talk about it.
Who is invited to Shma Koleinu for the High Holy Days? The next several weeks of blogs are going to feature some special folks...Read more...
Will I Live 'til Next Year?
08/19/2019 03:56:02 PM
If there is one question that undergirds the purpose of the High Holy Days, it is the asking and pondering and reflecting and maybe even, obsessing, over this one: “Will I live til next year?”
Not at all because we have control over it.
And not at all because we can somehow pray our way out of death (as much as we’d like to believe otherwise).
Not at all because our deeds, whether good or bad, will...Read more...
What does it mean to be Jewish?
08/14/2019 08:50:41 PM
This isn’t some existential question that only became germane to our lives because of our post-shtetl, assimilated, acculturated, reality. It’s actually a question we have been asking for millennia. The Book of Devarim (or Deuteronomy) is built upon this investigation. Moses, Joshua and Caleb (the only Israelites alive at this point who had experienced slavery and the Exodus) stand before the Israelites (or should we...Read more...
Ode to the Mommas and the Poppas
08/02/2019 11:29:45 AM
At times, Abraham was blinded by ambition
and Sarah by jealousy,
Isaac by fear and Rebecca by agency,
Jacob and Esau, could often only see each other’s back,
Rachel and Leah got stuck in minds full of lack.
Each of them, our...Read more...
“How I Spent My Summer Vacation”
07/23/2019 10:29:48 AM
Last week, I had the distinct privilege to volunteer for an organization very close to my heart, The Woods Project. The Woods Project is dedicated to creating fertile ground for the growth, development and expanding opportunities for Houston high school students from low-income families. They do this primarily through wilderness experiences, both locally and nationally. And while, yes it’s true that my wife, Natalie is their...Read more...
Rabbi Scott Is Out of the Office
07/15/2019 06:31:58 PM
Rabbi Scott is on vacation this week, relaxing after a busy spring and preparing mentally for the gauntlet that is the High Holy Days. As you might know, we need volunteers for this big event, so please consider how you might be able help out. There are many tasks to take care of, both before and during the High Holy Days. Our celebration is a great opportunity for Shma Koleinu to put our best foot forward throughout the...Read more...
Summer Heat
07/08/2019 08:17:03 PM
Ah, Houston freeways in the summer. Yes, it’s true they are often filled with delayed or postponed public works projects, and it can get so hot that the path in front of us seems to shimmer as if it were melting. But it is a nice surprise to find a whole lot less traffic, with thousands fewer school carpools and busses schlepping kids from here to there! It is a sight when a Houstonian experiences emotional uplift upon witnessing no traffic...Read more...
A Little Meditation for the 4th of July
07/02/2019 01:52:06 PM
The story goes that on one particularly fateful day, the elders were simply fed up by the ways in which their people disregarded their teachings, disavowed their presumed allegiance and were inert to their teachings for how one should live one’s life. And so the elders prayed. They prayed harder and stronger and louder and more fervently than ever before in their lives. And because all of them prayed together with such intensity...Read more...