Fences May Make Good Neighbors, They Also Keep People Out
06/30/2017 02:00:04 AM
In response to this Torah commentary, I wrote the following:
With regard to intermarriage, the American Jewish community’s approach over the last 50 years has been a disaster and more than anything, the Rabbis and he synagogues are to blame. As a Reform Rabbi who has been performing marriages between Jews and non-Jews for the last 18 years, I know that Egon Mayer was right when he said, “Arguing against intermarriage is like...Read more...
Paying Attention and Letting Go – on Parashat Chukat
06/30/2017 01:57:56 AM
If you’ve read even a few of my blog posts, you probably won’t be surprised to hear that I am a little obsessed with the ancient Israelites’ penchant for kvetching. With the story of the Exodus from Mitzrayim (Eygpt) and their 40-year wandering through the midbar (wilderness) so prominent in 4 of the 5 Books of Moses, their moaning, groaning and constant trope of “woe-as-us” ever streaming from their lips, is either a serious...Read more...
Getting Unstuck
06/20/2017 02:03:42 AM
“Life’s too short.” We hear this phrase often. It or its equivalent can be found on coffee cups, bumper stickers and t-shirts. But anyone who has ever spent any time being hurt or angry or livid has probably noticed that in these moments, life is anything but too short. The pain, whether dull or intense, makes the wheels of life feel like they are moving through deep, thick mud. And the more we try to push...Read more...
Opportunity Knocks: an argument for embracing intermarriage in Judaism
06/13/2017 02:05:32 AM
A couple of nights ago, I sat with 7 couples raising Jewish children. Of these seven couples, only one of them consisted of two Jewish partners. In the other six couples raising Jewish children, one individual in each partnership with the “Jewish pedigree” had been disaffected, disconnected, or simply distanced from their Judaism. Do you know what brought them back and into this living room? The fact that they fell...Read more...
Why Do Jews Have Bleeding Hearts?
03/17/2017 02:06:59 AM
Without claiming a moral supremacy, it is so important to remember why Jews always tend to commit themselves to lost causes, abandoned ideals and dreams of a better world. In short, its called Tikun Olam, the demand, the one single injunction all Jews cannot deny we are called to – Repair the world. This world.
For Jews, there is no other world. This is it. And while the Rabbis of the Talmud and our liturgy allude to a life...Read more...
“Context Clues” – These And These are the Words of the Living God
02/03/2017 02:09:40 AM
Hillel and Shammai, two of our towering rabbinic figures, didn’t agree on much. Shammai was a stickler for rules and Hillel was far more flexible. Shammai drew a line in the sand and Hillel would find a way around it while still respecting the spirit of the law. The Rabbis asked if despite their great division, were their children allowed to marry each other. The answer was a resounding yes, for they were still Jews, they were still...Read more...
“Context Clues” – Caring for the Stranger
01/30/2017 02:10:58 AM
The amazing thing about the Torah is that it doesn’t pull any punches. Our patriarchs and matriarchs are great because of the extraordinary experiences of their lives, not because they always got it right! As a matter of fact, the Torah takes us to great pains to experience the ways in which they really miss the mark at times!
Try this little ditty from The Book of Genesis on for size:
Scene1: Sarah gives Hagar (her handmaiden)...Read more...
Getting to Seattle
01/17/2017 02:12:45 AM
I won’t be able to articulate this illustrative metaphor with the poetry and flair of its author, Leonard Pitts, but it certainly bears repeating, especially today, as we honor Dr Martin Luther King, Jr. Last night at an MLK Commemoration, columnist Leonard Pitts spoke on the divide that exists between white people and black people in terms of their often vastly divergent views of the state of racial equality in our country. He explained...Read more...
Midday Message: On Happiness and Gratitude
01/14/2017 02:14:12 AM
We tend to believe that it’s the happy people who are grateful.
However, its really the other way around: It’s the grateful people who are happy.
All of us know people who have all the things one might imagine would make them happy but they’re miserable. And if we’re lucky, we’ve come across folks who, despite challenging and even dire circumstances, express happiness. The trick, according to...Read more...
We’re All Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf
01/12/2017 02:16:18 AM
OK, I get it. The person who works in the cubicle next to you, in the office down the hall, in the classroom or in the board room, or uses the locker next to you, or whom you’ve considered “unfriending” is just too much for you. You know who I’m talking about. Because, well, he/she just bugs you. Maybe it’s their voice, maybe it’s bad past experiences, maybe it’s something else. But it’s not realistic that he or she...Read more...
Midday Message: On Upsets
01/10/2017 02:17:34 AM
In the car on the way to school:
Sammy: This is the year of the upset, Dad.
Me: What do you mean?
Sammy: Take last year’s Super Bowl. Cam Newton was the NFL’s MVP Quarterback expected to lead the Panthers to victory over the Broncos. That didn’t happen. At all. March Madness kept seeing upset after upset; nothing was what we expected. In the NBA Playoffs, the Warriors came back from...Read more...
Midday Message: “What makes a good slogan great?”
01/09/2017 02:19:35 AM
CSK says, “Join us…You already belong.” I remember throwing this out to my good friend, David, who, as an Ad Exec, was very much used to a process of growth and development when it came to helping a client come up with the right “sales pitch.” He told me that usually this process should take months, and sometimes even longer. But, he also said that sometimes the perfect pitch presents itself because it’s a simple...Read more...
Don’t Get Stuck
11/09/2016 02:20:39 AM
When Israel found itself before the as of yet, un-parted Red Sea and Pharaoh’s pursuing army at their rear, they began to kvetch (complain) and geshri (despond) and veynen (cry). “What Moses?!, there weren’t enough graves in Egypt that you brought us out to the desert to die?!” In desperate response, Moses tells Israel to stand back and await God’s imminent deliverance. God, however, grows impatient with this magician’s persona...Read more...
The Soul’s Calendar
08/12/2016 02:22:18 AM
No matter how many times I have journeyed through this period of the year, it always seems to catch me off guard. Tomorrow night is the 9th of Av, Tisha b’Av, and as some are aware, this day is the Jewish people’s national day of mourning. Harkening back to the year 586 BCE, when the ancient Temple in Jerusalem lay in ruins, and the Prophet Jeremiah, sat in sackcloth and ashes, dumbfounded by the pity he felt for himself, for his people...Read more...
Reflections on Yom HaShoah – The Canary in the Coalmine
05/05/2016 11:15:52 AM
In so many ways, we Jews get messed with. When we claim our tragic past, we are accused of acting like martyrs under false pretense. When we deject our past and rise above all that has befallen us, we are accused of the secret command and control of the world. We are the classic canary in the coalmine but perhaps, not in the way we tend to think. Yes Niemoller’s poem, “First They Came for the Socialists,” is true. Its true for we Jews,...Read more...
Invitation to Shabbat HaGadol – The Great Shabbat
04/12/2016 11:17:37 AM
Yankele was watching his father, a Rabbi, write one of his shabbes speeches. “How do you know what to say, Daddy?” Yankele asked. “Why, son, God tells me”, said the Rabbi. “Oh, then why do you keep crossing things out?
I understand that “crossing out” issue. “Speaking for God” is an attribute that, when I hear one Rabbi say, he does, I find it a bit scary, but when I hear another Rabbi say that he doesn’t, I...Read more...
Straight out of Egypt!
03/31/2016 11:20:55 AM
We have come to know our upcoming big holiday as “Passover,” in light of the story of the Angel of Death “passing over” the homes of the Israelites, as the first born children of the Egyptians are struck dead by the tenth plague. However, truth be told, this holiday that inspects, analyzes and investigates the essence of freedom, isn’t about passing over, avoiding, skirting, or shying away. Its Hebrew name, “Pesach,”...Read more...
4 Great Ways to Celebrate Purim Without Going to a Synagogue
03/24/2016 11:22:33 AM
While I hope to see you when CSK will be celebrating Purim tomorrow night and the next (3-24 & 3-25), it is true that the official date of Purim (14th of Adar) begins this evening. And if you happen to be a little “Type A” about observing the holiday on its official date, I have a recommendation for how to observe Purim tonight without having to go to a synagogue. There are 4 official commandments for Purim. They are: hearing the...Read more...
To Be Fair…
03/17/2016 11:24:00 AM
A friend and congregant emailed me today asking, “Rabbi Scott, since you wrote a piece about how Donald Trump is channeling the destructive efforts of Korach, then which biblical personas might I liken President Obama or Secretary Clinton or Senator Sanders?” Citing a particularly negative article against these three individuals that seeks to create parallels between them and Trump, I believe my congregant’s suggestion was, in essence,...Read more...
I Found Him? Who? Donald Trump! He’s in the Bible!
03/16/2016 11:26:24 AM
There is a moment in the Torah when a man named Korach speaks out and against Moses. In the middle of the desert, backed by two hundred fifty malcontented former slaves, Korach challenges Moses with these words:
“You have gone too far! For all the community are holy, all of them, and the Lord is in their midst. Why then do you raise yourself above the Lord’s congregation?” (Numbers 16:3)
Now, one could make the argument...Read more...